My husband and I have been married for nearly 18 years and as a friend of mine noted, he doesn’t have a faithful bone in his body. It’s sad but I naively hoped that I could forgive him and we could move on. I really wanted to try to save our family but when you’re married to a pathological liar and a cheater, the best thing to do is get out and I’m finally doing just that! Of course I’m upset with my husband – he is ultimately at fault but this girl has no shame. She knowingly continued a relationship with a married man, made plans to move in together in a 2 bedroom house with 5 children between them. She has texted that my husband tells her that he loves her. She even refers to him as “your husband” when she msg’s me. Real classy girl! The funny thing is, when I went through my husband’s phone and found these text messages between them, I also found messages and pics from his ex, so he’s already cheating on the girl he’s cheating on me with! He’s all yours! I’m out!