He allegedly was having an affair before we were ever married but I have not been able to confirm that. However someone was nice enough that they provide me proof he was having a consistent affair throughout the marriage which is why marital relations shall we say were quite low. He spent 3 1/2 years telling me the reason he didn’t want to have more marital relations or personal relations if you well was because he was too stressed out about school and yet there are documented emails of him confirming he was cheating on me. So ladies if you’re dating this guy or you’re considering marrying him just know he’s lying until you back him into a corner. He is an absolute piece of carp.