husband f***** woman, now they share child together. hubby thought he could keep secret from me. Email sent to Hubby’s email asking for 250.00 for 3 days. she dissed boyfriend when my husband informed her we could be divorcing. Now it would seem she is hurting for money, seems she over extended self without boyfriend, and daddy isn’t there to pick up slack. How long had my husband been caring for illegitimate child? Since day child had been born.