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Heidi Balfer – California

Men, boys, she-males and trannies beware of Heidi Ford-Sistrunk Blafer (aka. Lori Bowman) is looking for another victim. Once meeting this woman online my life turned in a remake of the movie Fatal Attraction. Like Michael Douglas I was struggling with work stress and relationship indecision when I met Heidi online. She said she was the ex wife of a football player and sounded like a sweet mid-western girl. At first meeting she was a rather homely woman but had a fun energy to her. I fell for her innocent act and thought we could share a few laughs. be her next husband. Heidi constantly texted me with her narcissistic wants and needs. Talking about our future together. Nothing could be farther from my mind. I tried to let her down easy by telling her I was not ready to settle down. She went berserk throwing things, screaming and crying. A week later, she called and apologized for her actions, blaming her emotional outburst on some negative review by her school’s principal (she’s a teacher–glad she’s not MY kid’s teacher!), blaming HIM for her emotional outbursts towards her students during class. Apparently, like everyone else in her life, he was not being supportive of her. She lies about everything and everyone to anyone who will listen, and blames her own personal failings on others. I ignored her cries for attention as she went to higher extremes by harassing me at work, daily, via texts and phone calls. As if that wasn’t bad enough, she stalked my friends and family on Facebook, posted false remarks about me on the internet, and attempted to damage my reputation online. So Wendy’s post comes as no surprise to me, as I can only imagine how many other men have been slandered by this angry, emotionally unstable, dishonest wretch. It was a long and painful experience that has cost me time and aggravation. So guys and very masculine women (Heidi wants to be your lipstick lesbian), no matter how long your dry spell may be, don’t fall for Heidi or Lori or any of her other aliases and personalities. Stay OUT of those XXL granny panties. She’ll torture anyone who doesn’t give her the attention she desires. RUN!