Ernie’s speciality is to take women to his apartment in Mallorca, wine them, dine them, pamper them. Tell you all kinds of well rehearsed “poor me” stories just to sucker you in. He has the perfect “I’m innocent and women have mistreated me” routine down to a science.
Once he knows he has you…wow he goes to town ripping and destroying your life piece by piece but you are so in love with him you don’t even see it. It’s like an abuser, he practices his dark art slowly, isolating you from family, friends and your job so you are available to serve only the evil, toxic, poisoness king. And he’s so bloody good at it.
When I look back now at the lies and con he pulled on me…well I realised how much I loved him. Typically I’m a smart intelligent woman with a degree. With a clearer mind I see his s*** going back to our first date.