This woman was a customer of my husband’s and began an online affair with my husband of 26 years. She at the time was married as well, with 4 kids. I recently found out it had gone on for over 2 years. I was under the impression that it was only emotional, and only online. My husband came clean, finally, and admitted that she had flown out to San Diego quite a few times to see him. She knew he was married. She knew he had children. She didn’t care. She recently told him she doesn’t want to be thought of as “that woman”. Guess what? You are that woman. Lying, cheating, selfish, narcissistic woman.