This individual left you. You just don’t know it yet. He will stick with you and pretend everything is fine until he is utterly bored and go for the closest piece of meat he’ll find. He’ll just have to find an excuse to make his side just. His medium: parties. If you can’t handle parties or your alcohol then you’re not worth his time and will use that to dump you. This individual left you – he had his plan all set out for ages, it doesn’t matter how well you dance for him until then, his decision was made without letting you know.