Rachel Vista had an affair with my soon to be ex-husband. It started out emotionally when I was 5 months pregnant. He lied about them being friends and I texted her about it. She said I must be a sad person to not understand platonic friendships of the opposite sex. Ha, within a month they were screwing! I found out on Thanksgiving Day 2019.
It continued despite their mutual claims that they wanted it to stop. It’s a tragic situation overall. He was screwing her while begging me to take a marriage restoration class. During the course of the class, he continued to screw her. They facilitated their interactions by using the Discord app.
He would share my private intimate thoughts with her and then use hers to try to win favor with me and show me he didn’t have secrets. For example, he shared that I struggled with antepartum depression with her. Then shared that she becomes suicidal every New Year’s because she doesn’t feel she is where she wants to be in life, and that she doesn’t connect with others and has no friends and that she has body dysmorphia regarding her vagina.
In a twist of irony, she was messing with his head too. She broke up with him claiming she wasn’t ready for a relationship and could not have one built on the ashes of a marriage. She only wanted him long enough to feel validation and help him light a match to his marriage. Yet, she would say these things and continue to knowingly open her legs to a married man that had a son her age.
He lied multiple times to me about his interactions with her. Disgustingly, I had sex with him while he was screwing her on the side. And when I realized he lied and tried to warn her, he begged me to keep our intimacy a secret. Because it would be something she could never forgive. As if I was his mistress! Fortunately, although contemporaneous sex was involved STI testing was negative.
I hope they end up happily married to one another so that the cost of their integrity, honesty, and dignity was worth it. Perhaps together, they will lift each other up, and learn to treat people with more kindness than they have shown myself or our infant son.
To be fair, I became angry and did post her image on cheating websites. But, she texted me that she hopes my son loses me. And she fucked my husband while we were married, so I’d say we’re equal.